"...There are many occasions on which a No is the only possible answer and such a No clarifies nothing, is useless. It's the answer one would get whether it was true or not. A Yes can be useful sometimes, but a No almost never, especially when the subject under discussion is something ugly or shamefu"
"...it's impossible to recover the inexperience of your experienced youth once you've moved on considerably; once you've understood something, it's impossible to not understand what you once didn't understand, ignorance doesn't return, not even when you want to describe a time during which you either"
"Something happened or didn't happen, and if it did happen, it did so in a certain way, that is how it took place. Notice that expression "to take place", which we use as a synonym of "happen" and "occur". It's curiously appropriate and exact, because that is precisely what happens with the truth, it"
"When you're rejected by the main object of your love, it's easy to become filled with a general feeling of being surplus to requirements, to feel that any display of affection could be deemed bothersome or undesirable, that the quality of your love has somehow been downgraded and so should never be "
"There are some things about which it's best just to have your suspicions, as long as these are not pressing or unbearable, rather than pursue some disappointing or painful certainty that...would oblige you to go on living, meanwhile having to tell yourself a different story from the one you had live"
"...unhappy people often insist on trying to uncover the full magnitude of their unhappiness, or choose to investigate other people's lives as a distraction from their own."
"We strive to conquer things, never thinking, in our eagerness, that they will never definitely be ours, that they rarely last and are always susceptible to loss, nothing is ever for ever, we often fight battles or hatch plots or tell lies, commit vile deeds or acts of treachery or foment crimes alwa"