![爱情刽子手：存在主义心理治疗的10个故事 - [美]欧文·D.亚隆(Irvin D. Yalom)](https://static.book345.com/covers/s/9787111683285.jpg)
AI导读
核心看点
- 十篇心理治疗小说，以存在焦虑为深层主题
- 治疗师自我剖析，展现真实的心路历程与偏见
- 探讨死亡、孤独、自由与无意义四大存在关怀
适合谁读
- 对存在主义心理学及心理治疗感兴趣的读者
- 希望了解心理咨询真实过程与人性复杂面的读者
- 关注自我成长、人际关系与生命意义的读者
读前提醒
- 需区分文学虚构与专业临床规范，理性看待
- 关注治疗师的反移情与偏见，而非仅看疗效
- 结合《存在主义心理治疗》理论对照阅读更佳
读者共识
- 文笔真诚感人，深刻揭示人性与关系的复杂性
- 部分章节对特定群体存在偏见，引发争议讨论
- 是兼具专业水准与可读性的优秀心理治疗普及读物
本导读基于书籍简介、目录、原文摘录、短评和书评生成，不等同于全文精读。
精彩摘录
- "Betty, what's the danger in letting me matter to you? I am not sure. It feels scary, like I'll need you too much. I'm not sure you'll be there for me. I'm going to have to leave California in a year, remember?" A year's a long time. So you avoid me now because you won't always have me? I know it doe"
- "I DO NOT LIKE to work with patients who are in love. Perhaps it is because of envy——I, too, crave enchantment. Perhaps it is because love and psychotherapy are fundamentally incompatible. The good therapist fights darkness and seeks illumination, while romantic love is sustained by mystery and crumb"
- "My primary clinical assumption- an assumption on which I based my technique- is that basic anxiety emerges from a person's endeavors, conscious and unconscious, to cope with the harsh facts of life, the "givens" of existence. I have found that four givens are particularly relevant to psychtherapy: t"
- "Two beliefs/delusions can afford a sense of safety: the belief in personal specialness; the other, the belief in an ultimate rescuer. The human being either asserts autonomy by heroic self-assertionor seeks safety through fusing with a superior force: that is, one either emerges or merges, separates"
- "in bonded to anxiety, it means that one is responsible for one's own choices, actions, one's own life situation. The crucial first step in therapy is the patient's assumption of responsibility for his or her life predicament."
- "Dave could resist assuming responsibility for his marital problems, he could not resist the immediate data he himself was generating in group therapy."
- "Freedom not only requires us to bear responsibility for our life choices but also posits that change requires an act of will. It is through willing, the mainspring of action, that our freedom is enacted. I see willing as having two stages: a person initiates through wishing and then enacts through d"
- "it refers to the unbridgeable gap between self and others—— note: both interpersonal and intrapersonal. There's no solution to exitential isolation, many friendship or marriage has failed because, instead of relating to, and caring for, one another, one person uses other as a shield against isolatio"
作者简介
欧文·D. 亚隆
当今世界上深负盛名、极具影响力、著作流传颇为广泛的心理治疗大师之一，被评选为美国至今健在的三个最重要的心理治疗学家之一，是美国团体心理治疗的权威、精神医学大师、存在主义治疗三大代表人物之一。他的许多著作不仅给心理治疗师带来启发，也深得普通读者的喜爱，在世界范围内成功发行。其作品多次荣获欧美小说和非小说类奖项，其中《当尼采哭泣》被拍成同名电影。
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其实整体还是比较失望的，本期待每一个案例都会有recap来帮助捋清楚诊疗思路，但似乎重心在于storytelling，最明显的就是第五章，治疗的过程比较潦草地就写过去了。打四星的原因一是最后一章对梦的解析力挽狂澜，也有头有尾、条理清晰；二是第三章，同样是梦的解析，让我几乎跟Penny一样惊讶；三是最rewarding的前言部分啦，最有见解、最comprehensive、最有理论深度——不过在存在主义心理治疗层面，理论深度都是可以直接运用到生活中的。所以依然对dr. Irvin yalom抱有期待。
这本非常好看！微信读书上有。作者作为心理治疗师是诚挚的，这意味着他也是一个普通的人类，能移情，也有偏好，会反移情。但最终的结果都不错。特别是最后一个故事，那种在夫妻关系中隐藏的愤恨和力量，还好以心理咨询的方式抒发出来。
最喜欢减肥那个故事
四大存在性关怀：死亡，生活的意义，自由与孤独。
第一个故事，简直就是我本人的经历。
美国白人男性心理医生的治疗总让我有种想要嘲讽的冲动，尤其是在他们试图坦诚的时候。
他回答了自己提出的问题，能在书本里看到作者的成长，也很惊喜
能理解此书在二十年前的红火…
要不是看到作者是欧文亚隆，我不会从书架拿起这本书。但是这本书真的很不错，是一本真诚、专业又有趣的书
通过不同患者的经历展示心理治疗的过程。让人印象深刻的是每个人都会对不可控的命运感到恐惧，进而有不同的表现。所以坦然接受生命中的好与坏吧。
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