![爱情刽子手 - [美]欧文·亚隆Irvin D. Yalom, [美国] 欧文·亚隆](https://static.book345.com/covers/s/9787806179185.jpg)
AI导读
核心看点
- 十个心理治疗案例，展现存在主义疗法。
- 直面死亡、孤独、自由与无意义四大终极关怀。
- 亚隆坦诚剖析治疗师内心，揭示咨询真相。
适合谁读
- 对心理咨询、存在主义心理学感兴趣的读者。
- 渴望自我探索、理解人性深层动力的普通人。
- 心理学专业学生及从事助人行业的从业者。
读前提醒
- 书名具误导性，实为心理治疗案例集而非爱情小说。
- 部分版本翻译质量参差不齐，建议选评较好的版本。
- 阅读时请做好直面人性阴暗面与存在焦虑的准备。
读者共识
- 亚隆真诚坦率，对治疗师内心活动毫不保留。
- 案例精彩深刻，但部分故事结局依赖外在事件。
- 虽翻译常受诟病，但核心思想极具启发与疗愈力。
本导读基于书籍简介、目录、原文摘录、短评和书评生成，不等同于全文精读。
精彩摘录
- "Betty, what's the danger in letting me matter to you? I am not sure. It feels scary, like I'll need you too much. I'm not sure you'll be there for me. I'm going to have to leave California in a year, remember?" A year's a long time. So you avoid me now because you won't always have me? I know it doe"
- "I DO NOT LIKE to work with patients who are in love. Perhaps it is because of envy——I, too, crave enchantment. Perhaps it is because love and psychotherapy are fundamentally incompatible. The good therapist fights darkness and seeks illumination, while romantic love is sustained by mystery and crumb"
- "My primary clinical assumption- an assumption on which I based my technique- is that basic anxiety emerges from a person's endeavors, conscious and unconscious, to cope with the harsh facts of life, the "givens" of existence. I have found that four givens are particularly relevant to psychtherapy: t"
- "Two beliefs/delusions can afford a sense of safety: the belief in personal specialness; the other, the belief in an ultimate rescuer. The human being either asserts autonomy by heroic self-assertionor seeks safety through fusing with a superior force: that is, one either emerges or merges, separates"
- "in bonded to anxiety, it means that one is responsible for one's own choices, actions, one's own life situation. The crucial first step in therapy is the patient's assumption of responsibility for his or her life predicament."
- "Dave could resist assuming responsibility for his marital problems, he could not resist the immediate data he himself was generating in group therapy."
- "Freedom not only requires us to bear responsibility for our life choices but also posits that change requires an act of will. It is through willing, the mainspring of action, that our freedom is enacted. I see willing as having two stages: a person initiates through wishing and then enacts through d"
- "it refers to the unbridgeable gap between self and others—— note: both interpersonal and intrapersonal. There's no solution to exitential isolation, many friendship or marriage has failed because, instead of relating to, and caring for, one another, one person uses other as a shield against isolatio"
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