Good Habits, Bad Habits - Wendy Wood

Good Habits, Bad Habits

Wendy Wood

出版时间

2019-10-01

ISBN

9781250159076

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍

A landmark book about how we form habits, and what we can do with this knowledge to make positive change

We spend a shocking 43 percent of our day doing things without thinking about them. That means that almost half of our actions aren’t conscious choices but the result of our non-conscious mind nudging our body to act along learned behaviors. How we respond to the people around us; the way we conduct ourselves in a meeting; what we buy; when and how we exercise, eat, and drink―a truly remarkable number of things we do every day, regardless of their complexity, operate outside of our awareness. We do them automatically. We do them by habit. And yet, whenever we want to change something about ourselves, we rely on willpower. We keep turning to our conscious selves, hoping that our determination and intention will be enough to effect positive change. And that is why almost all of us fail. But what if you could harness the extraordinary power of your unconscious mind, which already determines so much of what you do, to truly reach your goals?

Wendy Wood draws on three decades of original research to explain the fascinating science of how we form habits, and offers the key to unlocking our habitual mind in order to make the changes we seek. A potent mix of neuroscience, case studies, and experiments conducted in her lab, Good Habits, Bad Habits is a comprehensive, accessible, and above all deeply practical book that will change the way you think about almost every aspect of your life. By explaining how our brains are wired to respond to rewards, receive cues from our surroundings, and shut down when faced with too much friction, Wood skillfully dissects habit formation, demonstrating how we can take advantage of this knowledge to form better habits. Her clear and incisive work shows why willpower alone is woefully inadequate when we’re working toward building the life we truly want, and offers real hope for those who want to make positive change.

Wendy Wood is Provost Professor of Psychology and Business at the University of Southern California. She has written for The Washington Post and the Los Angeles Times, and her work has been featured in The New York Times, the Chicago Tribune, Time magazine, and USA Today, and on NPR. She lectures widely and recently launched the website Good Habits Bad Habits to convey scientif...

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书里面讲得道理都来自 well-researched behavioral studies,对于我来说并没有什么新意,但对不熟悉这方面研究的人来说应该是干货比较多的。一句话总结:改变你的环境,而不要靠所谓的“自制力”。
网络时代,我们常常忘了我们还有一个身体,不健康饮食就会发胖,熬夜不规律作息就会影响精力恢复,到底是我们主动选择熬夜还是被外界环境刺激影响决策阻碍了本来想早睡的选择。行为科学重点就是研究行为与主观意识之间的关系,环境与潜意识的关系。cue——›craving不如atomic habits写的实用,但纠正了Atomic Habits的部分观点的论据问题。最后一章提到的书Nudge,好几次遇到了看goodreads评分太低就没打算读,没想到是诺贝尔经济家关于行为经济学的self-help(improving decisions about health, wealth, and happiness), 必须找了读下。这本不推荐,离Tiny Habits差太多了。
养成习惯的四个步骤,寻找动力,减少阻力,奖励自己,不断重复。【所谓“意志力”和“自律”和好习惯没有必然联系,思想和技巧的结合更能促使习惯的养成。
我觉得还不错。非常同意很多事情光靠will power不是长久之计。良好习惯养成之后几乎不需要self control。喜欢jumping through the windows一章。比如Covid-19这样的事件可能将以往的习惯统统打乱,但这未必全是坏事,正所谓“不破不立”。
全是干货!Habit can help us as much as it can hinder us. Behavioral principles don’t discriminate good and bad habits. 能让我骑车听书越骑越快的有声书,作者自己读的感觉像是一系列优质播客,没有生硬的感觉,甚至能感觉到作者对自己的研究的热爱和乐观。
作者一开始就提出了一个例子, 讲的是她的newhew希望可以减轻自己的体重,所以在社交媒体上发了一则声明说自己肯定会开始减重的,并且也得到了很多亲朋好友的支持,但一个月之后这个侄子却没有做到。 这件‘声明’的事情反而变成了这个侄子的禁锢,因为自己明明说了要做到也得到了支持,但最后却不如自己预期,反而是让social media证实了自己的失败。 --我的解读, 首先不需要发声明这样可以降低朋友圈对你的预期; 同时开始真正的长期重复你想要达成的一个习惯 并且可以用社交媒体记录; 这样可以让自己得到 立马的社会认同,因为一旦有Immediate Gratification 那这个习惯才容易坚持, 同时一直坚持健身会得到最终Delayed Gratification- 减肥成功。
我们很多的行为都是基于习惯。聪明的人从一开始就做出正确的选择。他们的坚持不懈在他人的眼里是超凡意志力的体现,在他们却大部分是因为习惯。破旧立新需要借助外力,通常情况下这个外力不需要多大。人的快速反应常常是按习惯做出的。所以平时养成好习惯至关重要。
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