The INTP - Dr. A.J. Drenth

The INTP

Dr. A.J. Drenth

出版社

出版时间

2017-04-14

ISBN

9780979216824

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍
INTPs are the most philosophical of all types. They love contemplating life and considering the broad ways things are interconnected. They are also concerned with the perennial question of “how to live.” They loathe the idea of a mediocre life and have a deep sense that they should be doing something important. But in order to know what that entails, they feel they must first know themselves; self-knowledge must precede action. Unfortunately, pinning down who they are is rarely as easy as it might seem. It can take years, even decades, for INTPs to find themselves. And as much as they’d like to, they can’t put their lives on hold while they figure themselves out. Hence, they may at times feel forced to make unwanted compromises in their careers or relationships. Despite these challenges, INTPs can and do progress in their quest. And this book can aid and expedite that process. Through the structured lens of personality typology, it reveals the deeper sources of their struggles and dilemmas, as well as potential solutions. If you’re looking for a clear, honest, and penetrating analysis of the INTP, this book is for you. Chapter 1 contains a general overview, as well as a function-by-function analysis, of the INTP personality type, including a look at the tug-of-war between the INTP’s dominant (Ti) and inferior (Fe) function. Chapter 2 examines INTPs’ typical course of growth and development across the lifespan. Chapter 3 explores the “negative potentials” of the INTP personality type. This includes a careful look at the INTP’s “dark side,” as well as the degree to which INTPs are prone to various psychological problems such as depression, ADD, autism/Asperger’s, narcissism, etc. Chapter 4 tackles one of the INTP’s most poignant and recurrent concerns—their quest for truth and meaning. Chapter 5 examines INTPs’ political, religious, and philosophical propensities. This includes analyses of the relative contributions of each of the INTP’s four functions to the ways in which they see and understand the world. Chapter 6 dives deeply into some of INTPs’ most pressing career concerns. This includes addressing issues such as the degree to which they should focus on the intrinsic versus extrinsic value of their work, the pluses and minuses of working independently, the potential merits of a day job, creative versus analytical careers, etc. This chapter also enumerates the INTP’s most common career strengths and interest areas, drawing on the six “RIASEC” interest themes developed by John Holland. Furthermore, it examines the relative merits of specific careers and majors—the hard sciences, social/moral sciences, computers/IT, freelancing, scholarship, medicine, psychology, etc.—in light of the INTP’s personality, skills, values, and interests. Chapter 7 explores the ways INTPs think and function with respect to relationships, including their unconscious motivations. It also discusses relationships as a forum for learning and experimentation, the danger of concealing negative thoughts and assumptions, INTP communication issues, Ti-Fe identity issues, and INTP attitudes toward family and parenting. Chapter 8 might be viewed as an extension of Chapter 7. It explores, on a type-by-type basis, how INTPs may fare when paired with various personality types. Chapter 9 compares and contrasts INTPs with related personality types—INTJs, ENTPs, ISTPs, and INFPs. By highlighting noteworthy similarities and differences, this chapter will help INTPs better distinguish themselves from these other types.
AI导读
核心看点
  • 深度解析INTP的Ti-Ne-Si-Fe功能栈及心理机制
  • 揭示INTP从迷茫到自我整合的三阶段成长路径
  • 探讨如何处理劣势情感功能Fe带来的内心冲突
适合谁读
  • MBTI测试结果为INTP,渴望深入了解自我的读者
  • 对荣格心理类型学及人格发展理论感兴趣的心理学爱好者
  • 正经历存在主义焦虑,寻求人生意义与职业方向的探索者
读前提醒
  • 本书为英文原版,部分论述偏向描述性,需耐心梳理逻辑
  • 建议结合自身体验阅读,避免陷入对刻板印象的过度对号入座
  • 书中关于职业与关系的建议具有参考性,但非绝对标准答案
读者共识
  • 被公认为INTP群体的深度自救指南,剖析精准且深刻
  • 帮助读者理解自身矛盾,建立内心秩序,缓解存在焦虑
  • 部分观点具普适性,非INTP读者亦可从中获得自我认知启发

本导读基于书籍简介、目录、原文摘录、短评和书评生成,不等同于全文精读。

精彩摘录
  • "Inferior Function: Extraverted Feeling (Fe)"
  • "The Feeling function weighs and evaluates our affective responses to the world. Since it is rather unconscious and undifferentiated in Thinking types, Thinkers are often unaware of their own emotions and Feeling judgments. Feeling types, by contrast, are not only aware of their emotions in general, "
  • "Because of their Fe's concern for maintaining external harmony (or what may be better understood as its discomfort with disharmony), INTPs may abstain from expressing their judgments in order to avoid unsettling others. While not as overtly warm or effusive as FJ types, INTPs can be sensitive to oth"
  • "As if all this wasn’t enough, the effects of a hyperpolarized Fe is not limited to INTPs’ relationships, but can also infiltrate their career decisions. For instance, Fe may lure INTPs into characteristically Feeling-oriented careers, such as human services or helping professions. Unfortunately, it "
  • "……The changes of Phase III are primarily psychological, involving a gradual shift in attitude and approach. Phase III INTPs are typically less attached to their work in the sense that they are less concerned with the advancement or indulgence of their Fe ego. This allows them to enjoy their work for"
  • "Transitioning to Phase III can be a “two steps forward, one step back” type of affair. As is true of other types, INTPs don’t skip over Phase II and move right into Phase III. Most will enjoy their fair share of pursuing, indulging, and promoting their Fe. Like other types, they need to dabble in “s"
  • "In many instances, INTPs manage to contain their anger, dealing with its effects on an inward basis. In contending with their own inner beast, they may experience any number of dark thoughts or urges. These may range from suicidal thoughts, to intense feelings of hatred, to fantasies of criminal act"
  • "Second, INTPs need to stop listening to their dark emotions. As Thinking types, they must recognize that, outside of "fight or flight" emergencies, their emotions are rarely good compasses for navigating life. (作为思考型的人,他们必须认识到,除了“战或逃”的紧急情况外,他们的情绪很少是导航生活的好指南针。) This is because many of their emotions,"
作者简介
A.J. is the principal visionary and founding father of Personality Junkie®, which he conceived in 2009 with the aim of exploring the theoretical underpinnings of psychological type and related areas of personality study. His research has primarily involved Jungian / Myers-Briggs® typology, while remaining conversant with the Enneagram and Big Five models as well. A.J. has authored four books on typology and currently boasts the two best-selling INTP books Amazon.com. His work has been referenced in numerous books, articles, and e-publications. In its broadest form, A.J.’s primary interest area is human subjectivity. He is particularly concerned with how the architecture of the mind—our “subjective lens”—shapes our beliefs, values, interests, biases, etc. He believes that investigating the nature of our psychological lenses, including the contributions of personality type, can help us better understand ourselves and our presuppositions. A.J. has also long been fascinated by the perennial question of “how to live.” On this front, he has devoted much time to exploring topics such as identity, purpose, and authenticity. He is especially interested in how clarifying our identity / purpose as individuals might help us cultivate more meaningful and effective lives. He has found typology useful in this respect as well, drawing on its insights regarding the respective strengths and roles of the personality types. Consistent with his own type (INTP), A.J. brings an explorative and synthetic approach to personality studies. Novices and professionals alike appreciate his thought-provoking yet accessible writing style.
用户评论
2019
囫囵吞枣的看了一番,对INTP的理解更加深入了些。篇幅不长,对于初识MBTI的小白(-我自己)有了整体概念,还算不错吧。
管它是玄学还是科学呢!就当爽文随便来读读
书中建议INTP适合做的工作的类型大抵和我之前的自我感觉差不多,但是本书更帮我细化了。
对于理解自我非常有帮助,推荐每个INTP阅读本书
每一个intp都值得去读一读,尤其是在自我探索这条路上已经走了很久的那类。 这本书没有提出新奇的理论,也没有将概念辨析得十分明确,但它一定程度上能让intp寻找到某种认同和归属。 在怀疑再怀疑、否定之否定、批判又批判的纽拉特式项目中,给intp找到一块相对确定的木板。它可能无法长久站立,也承受不了千钧之力,但至少没有腐烂。 暂且将它定为未来几年常读的“心灵鸡汤”,或是山顶洞人的夜航船,足见其带给我的抚慰与开解。
觉得这个模型大体上还比较符合我,上一个让我觉得很贴近的模型是女性阿斯伯格人格模型,上一个是敏感性人格,再上一个是卡尼霍伦的神经症人格,再上一个是米德尔马契里的多萝西娅和卡苏朋。总的来说就是我看很多模型都觉得符合自己,但这个目前算是比较整体可以统筹多个方面,可信与否需要事实的验证。极度倾向逻辑、内向思考、搜集信息,最差的是外向情感,这算是最准的了,事实上我确实非常难和别人共情,察觉自己的感情也都需要仔细地辩证分析。至今还记得第一次认真思考嫉妒这种感情时的惊讶:它的模型竟然如此精巧且复杂。
深入透彻
十分精准的概括了本INTP的典型行为和心理活动,并且能够一步步剖析背后的本质,并带来建议。果然是INTP写的书,十分对INTP的胃口。妥妥的INTP自救指南,INTP们的福音。至少可以读10遍以上。对本人来说,劣势功能Fe的强烈影响存在于职场、生活、家庭方方面面,且将伴随终身,奉劝各位INTP要不断加深对自己的理解,扬长避短,及时醒悟与“自救”,降低困扰,找到适合自己的方式来平衡工作与家庭,实现INTP探寻真理的理想。
终于完整地读完了第一本英文书,没想到献给了The INTP这种玄学书籍,不过16种类型里面,想必只有INTP会写整整一本书来剖析自己,MBTI不是用来给别人贴标签或者合理化自己的不成熟行为,他是审视自己感知和判断的方式的一种途径,可以帮助我们发现自己最珍视的东西,并且在了解与他人不同倾向的过程中,更好的理解自己与身边人,达到一种和谐共处,高效交流的状态。
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