Heartburn

Nora Ephron, [美] 诺拉·艾芙隆

出版社

Vintage

出版时间

1996-05-28

ISBN

9780679767954

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍
这书最戳人的地方,是它把「被出轨」写成了一个人如何重新夺回对自己人生的叙述权。女主角Rachel是个写烹饪书的人,丈夫出轨了一个脖子长、鼻子长的女人,可全书的重点从来不是抓奸或报复,而是她如何在治疗小组的逼问下,承认「你选他,是因为你早知道不会成功」——那种自我欺骗的清醒,比背叛本身更疼。读者反复回味的,正是那句「如果我讲出这个故事,就由我来掌控版本」:幽默不是逃避,而是把疼痛改写成自己说了算的叙事。它不适合寻求温暖治愈的人,亚马逊式的推荐词几乎全是误导;真正适合的是那些愿意直面婚姻千疮百孔、又相信写作本身就是一种自救的成年人。
作者简介
Nora Ephron has received Academy Award nominations for Best Original Screenplay for When Harry Met Sally, Silkwood, and Sleepless in Seattle, which she also directed. She lived in New York City with her husband, writer Nicholas Pileggi.
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核心看点
  • 诺拉·艾芙隆半自传体小说,幽默解构婚姻破裂。
  • 怀孕妻子发现丈夫出轨,以美食与犀利笔触反击。
  • 融合《西雅图不眠夜》编剧的机智与心碎体验。
读者共识
  • 好笑又心酸,是 cynic 才能拥有的浪漫主义。
  • 梅姨朗读的有声书版本被读者广泛推崇为经典。
  • 虽有人觉平淡,但多数读者共鸣其真实与治愈。
精彩摘录
  • "========== This affair between my husband, a fairly short person, and Thelma Rice, a fairly tall person with a neck as long as an arm and a nose as long as a thumb and you should see her legs, never mind her feet, which are sort of splayed. ========== The nurse gave me one of those withering looks t"
  • ""You picked him because you knew it wouldn't work out." "You picked him because his neuroses mesh perfectly with yours." "You picked him because you knew he'd deprive you the way your mother or your father did." That's what they're always telling you, one way or another, but the truth is that no mat"
  • "For a long time, I didn't believe him. And then I believed him. I believed in change. I believed in metamorphosis. I believed in redemption. I believed in Mark. My marriage to him was as willful an act as I have ever committed; I married him against all the evidence. I married him believing that mar"
  • "Vera said, " why do you feel you have to turn everything into a story?" So I told her why: Because if I tell the story, I control the version. Because if I tell the story, I can make you laugh, and I would rather have you laugh at me than feel sorry for me. Because if I tell the story, it doesn't hu"
用户评论
每每沮丧的时候就会重读nora ephron。第一次读完的时候我写的豆瓣短评:“读nora ephron写食物真是种享受,婚姻就不一定了。” 自己经历了爱和痛,就不这么觉得了。她写的句句是真。
觉得挺一般的,对婚姻和爱的态度无非这些那些。读完觉得自己读了个寂寞。
Love is never a problem, trust is, change is, learning is."and in so doing I became the kind of romantic only a cynic is truly capable of being" 一天读完新纪录
看完的同时听完了梅丽尔斯特里普朗读的有声书,算读了两遍?又好笑,又心酸。Nora的第二任丈夫,是水门事件里著名的那位,通过采访深喉揭露尼克松丑闻的华盛顿邮报记者,但也照样出轨出的理直气壮,可见人品和成就必须分开看。
R4 read by Julianna Jennings.
Where have I been? Why didn’t I discover Nora earlier????
当一天过得很糟糕的时候,你知道,多少水加多少鸡蛋就可以做出完美的水蒸蛋。
又是一本10年前就标了想读的书。作者是when harry met sally, sleepless in seattle, you’ve got mail这几部我至今没事的时候都会当背景音播放的电影的编剧导演,熟悉的戏谑、扎心的口吻,说爱情和婚姻。
在旅途中的地铁上读、等上菜时读、朋友洗澡时读,节奏干净轻快,充满非常new yorker的金句但不令人讨厌,就是结尾还是略为sappy了一些
8+ 梅读的很棒,一个应当很无聊但一点也不无聊的故事 看书评才知道Nora写了Meg三部戏
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