People Skills - Robert Bolton

People Skills

Robert Bolton

出版社

Touchstone

出版时间

1986-06-01

ISBN

9780671622480

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍

"People Skills" is a communication-skills handbook that can help you eliminate these and other communication problems. Author Robert Bolton describes the twelve most common communication barriers, showing how these "roadblocks" damage relationships by increasing defensiveness, aggressiveness, and dependency. He explains how to acquire the ability to listen, assert yourself, resolve conflicts, and work out problems with others. These are skills that will help you communicate calmly, even in stressful, emotionally charged situations.

用户评论
assertationd的方法,和非暴力沟通是类似的。
非常全面的书。讲resolve conflict的两章和前面十几章的风格不太一致,写的太抽象。但是其他的章节都写的非常好。我喜欢最后一章讲的沟通中内心和技巧的关系,两者缺一不可。即使关心他人,也需要有善巧的表达方式。作者讲的很透彻。
不敢相信这本书居然是1986年出版的,那个时候美国人早就把人性剖析透了!此书侧重沟通和解决冲突
When __, I feel __, because __.
虽然作者说话有点啰琐(讲得特别透彻),这本书应该作为”倾听与讲话“人生基本技能的说明书,从缘由到方法,从实践到检验,无所不具,常看常新。
适合二刷的书
重读,仍是经典,忍不住勾勾画画,堪当五星
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