How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk - Faber, Adele; Mazlish, Elaine; Coe, Kimberly Ann

How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk

Faber, Adele; Mazlish, Elaine; Coe, Kimberly Ann

出版社

出版时间

2012-02-07

ISBN

9781451663884

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍

30th Anniversary Edition

Updated with new insights from the next generation

You can stop fighting with your children! Here is the bestselling book that will give you the know-how you need to be more effective with your children—and more supportive of yourself. Enthusiastically praised by parents and professionals around the world, the down-to-earth, respectful approach of Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish makes relationships with children of all ages less stressful and more rewarding. Now, in this thirtieth-anniversary edition, these award-winning experts share their latest insights and suggestions based on feedback they’ve received over the years.

Their methods of communication—illustrated with delightful cartoons showing the skills in action—offer innovative ways to solve common problems. You’ll learn how to:

* Cope with your child’s negative feelings—frustration, disappointment, anger, etc.

* Express your anger without being hurtful

* Engage your child’s willing cooperation

* Set firm limits and still maintain goodwill

* Use alternatives to punishment

* Resolve family conflicts peacefully

阿黛尔•法伯(Adele Faber)和伊莱恩•玛兹丽施(Elaine Mazlish),国际著名亲子沟通专家,美国最畅销亲子教育书系作者。

她们是纽约市社会研究新校和长岛大学家庭生活研究所的创建者。本书是她们在创办的学校和研究所长期与父母们一起进行实验的研究总结。如今世界上数以千万的父母用自身的实践证明这些方法非常有效。她们除了在美国和加拿大各地频繁演讲外,还经常出现在《早安美国》(Good Morning America)和《欧普拉》(Oprah)等热门电视节目里。

法伯与玛兹丽施都是三位孩子的母亲,她们已被收录于美国名人录。

用户评论
道理都对
最后有推荐给家长们做培训的kits,打算去网站上找找
理论其实不怎么深刻。除了第一章“帮助孩子处理情绪”之外,都是在成年人的沟通中也很适用的法则,比如假设对方的正面意图,给出context,恰当表达自身情绪,给出正面反馈等等。因为娃还太小,暂时完全没有用武之地,只是略读了一下。过两年再细读吧
买了一本, 时刻学习.
很好的一本书,还有练习!值得随时复习。另外作者的另一本书Sibling Rivalry也非常好,已经是育儿经典书。看了以后觉得我也很受用啊,接纳情绪而不是acting out feelings,这样的道理我到有了孩子才知道。
4.5星推荐/语言简单易读,脉络清晰,非常多事例/需要多次翻阅及实践/treat your kid as an individual, independent human being; show your respect; be her/his model; don't be manipulative
as a parent, one should reflect on the interactions between parents and kids, making improvement always. The most important point is that including kids' feelings.
最好的关系莫不过如此,原来沟通能力处处相通,甚至觉得很多部分,跟领导力也息息相关。每一个小tip,都值得用1个月练习。
非常非常有实践性,也很有启发。当父母确实是一个非常磨练人的事情。除了必备的知识外,更重要的还有耐心,理智,和充足的自信。
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