how to talk so little kids will listen - Joanna Faber

how to talk so little kids will listen

Joanna Faber

出版社

出版时间

2017-01-10

ISBN

9781501131639

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍

A must-have resource for anyone who lives or works with young kids, with an introduction by Adele Faber, coauthor of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk, the international mega-bestseller The Boston Globe dubbed “The Parenting Bible.”

For over thirty-five years, parents have turned to How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk for its respectful and effective solutions to the unending challenges of raising children. Now, in response to growing demand, Adele’s daughter, Joanna Faber, along with Julie King, tailor How to Talk’s powerful communication skills to children ages two to seven.

Faber and King, each a parenting expert in her own right, share their wisdom accumulated over years of conducting How To Talk workshops with parents and a broad variety of professionals. With a lively combination of storytelling, cartoons, and fly-on-the-wall discussions from their workshops, they provide concrete tools and tips that will transform your relationship with the young kids in your life.

What do you do with a little kid who…won’t brush her teeth…screams in his car seat…pinches the baby...refuses to eat vegetables…throws books in the library...runs rampant in the supermarket? Organized according to common challenges and conflicts, this book is an essential emergency first-aid manual of communication strategies, including a chapter that addresses the special needs of children with sensory processing and autism spectrum disorders.

This user-friendly guide will empower parents and caregivers of young children to forge rewarding, joyful relationships with terrible two-year-olds, truculent three-year-olds, ferocious four-year-olds, foolhardy five-year-olds, self-centered six-year-olds, and the occasional semi-civilized seven-year-old. And, it will help little kids grow into self-reliant big kids who are cooperative and connected to their parents, teachers, siblings, and peers.

Joanna Faber is a parenting and education expert. She contributed heavily to her mother’s award-winning book, How to Talk So Kids Can Learn, and wrote a new afterword for the thirtieth anniversary edition of How to Talk So Kids Will Listen. She lectures and conducts workshops based on her mother’s work and her own experiences as a parent and educator. Joanna lives in the Hudson...

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用户评论
很实用的一本书!每章理论配上几个例子讲解得很清楚而且也能和日常生活中的不同情境结合起来。虽然还不能熟练运用,但上课的时候尝试过其中的方法,多少起到作用了。全书读下来感觉最重要的就是acknowledge feelings,在人际交往上同理心真的是通用法则。
小小娃的育儿心经!!全是干货~!
前面的方法非常好,后面的应用略重复。
我其实看的这本育儿书的中文版,不过好像豆瓣上没更新。
每次听到be playful就觉得parenting is not playful at all。虽然我家娃真的是easy模式,但我真的还是太弱鸡了。
和小朋友们相处真的是需要些说话技巧。
也不知道这三板斧有用吗
因为读过作者妈妈书里类似的观点,觉得作者是沿用了妈妈的理论没有提供新观点,扣一分。书里面对于“最后一根稻草”的典故用错了,再扣一分。整体上对于没有接触过这类观点的读者来说,还是很多实用的干货。尤其这几天我自己有情绪melt down,听她最后说家长崩溃的案例时,觉得自己被理解了。面对吵闹的孩子,第一步就是接受ta的情绪。最后一步可以是problem solving。
好看,写得还挺逗。方法给得到位,用了也很靠谱。还可以用来学英语,感觉获得了好多亲子沟通的地道小句子。
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