The 5 Love Languages - Gary D Chapman

The 5 Love Languages

Gary D Chapman

出版时间

2010-01-01

ISBN

9780802473158

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍
Marriage should be based on love, right? But does it seem as though you and your spouse are speaking two different languages? New York Times bestselling author Dr. Gary Chapman guides couples in identifying, understanding, and speaking their spouse’s primary love language—quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, acts of service, or physical touch. By learning the five love languages, you and your spouse will discover your unique love languages and learn practical steps in truly loving each other. Chapters are categorized by love language for easy reference, and each one ends with specific, simple steps to express a specific language to your spouse and guide your marriage in the right direction. A newly designed love languages assessment will help you understand and strengthen your relationship. You can build a lasting, loving marriage together. Gary Chapman hosts a nationally syndicated daily radio program called A Love Language Minute that can be heard on more than 150 radio stations as well as the weekly syndicated program Building Relationships with Gary Chapman , which can both be heard on fivelovelanguages.com. The Five Love Languages is a consistent new York Times bestseller - with over 5 million copies sold and translated into 38 languages. This book is a sales phenomenon, with each year outselling the prior for 16 years running! Includes a promotional code to gain exclusive online access to the new comprehensive love languages assessment.
作者简介
Married more than 45 years to Karolyn, Dr. Gary Chapman is just the man to turn to for help on improving or healing our most important relationships. His own life experiences, plus over forty years of pastoring and marriage counseling, led him to publish his first book in the Love Language series, The 5 Love Languages®: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate. Millions of readers credit this continual #1 New York Times bestseller with saving their marriages by showing them simple and practical ways to communicate their love to their partner. Since the success of his first book, Dr. Chapman has expanded his 5 Love Languages® series to specifically reach out to teens, singles, men, and children. He is the author of numerous other books published by Moody Publishers/Northfield Publishing, including Anger, The Family You’ve Always Wanted, The Marriage You’ve Always Wanted, Desperate Marriages, God Speaks Your Love Language, Parenting Your Adult Child, and Hope for the Separated. He coauthored The Five Languages of Apology with Dr. Jennifer Thomas. Chapman speaks to thousands of couples nationwide through his weekend marriage conferences. He hosts a nationally syndicated radio program, Love Language Minute, and a Saturday morning program, Building Relationships with Dr. Gary Chapman, that air on more than 400 stations. Dr. Chapman also serves as senior associate pastor at Calvary Baptist Church in Winston-Salem, North Carolina. Dr. Chapman holds BA and MA degrees in anthropology from Wheaton College and Wake Forest University, respectively, MRE and PhD degrees from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, and has completed postgraduate work at the University of North Carolina and Duke University. Dr. Chapman and his wife have two adult children and two grandchildren, and currently live in Winston-Salem, North Carolina.
用户评论
看完之后 突然想找个人爱一下。。。
要维持长期关系,必须觉得对方善意。怎么办到呢?想办法挖掘『他其实很爱你』的各种证据,然后 positive reinforcement, act it till it's the truth
“I knew she would bring that up”—读到乐坏了,football大哥几乎就是伟哥翻版,每次跟伟哥老婆聊完天,伟哥都会对我抱怨“我知道她肯定又提我......”。words of affirmation是喜欢彩虹屁的伟哥,quality time是城城,acts of service是我大学室友(我以前总骂他这种情感需求是把老婆当妈要求,读完这本书明白了这是他眼里爱的表达)。蛮有启发性的,是大家都知道的点,但细化成这五种languages后能像工具一样付之行动去改变。既然谈到physical touch,诸位大哥大姐索性再读下the Velvet rage,作者也是counselor,只不过对象是专门针对gay couples,无论直弯,爱没区别,为爱互相启发。
Love doesn't erase the past, but it makes the future different. That sounds much more expecting.
不知为何我一个十七岁高中生看婚姻指南看得停不下来。 其实若把对伴侣的方法拿来对真心朋友也很适用。
I love you. I care about you, and I choose to forgive you. Even though my feelings of hurt may linger, I will not allow what has happened to come between us. I hope that we can learn from this experience. You are not a failure because you have failed. You are my spouse, and together we will go on from here.
亲密关系里伴侣双方表达爱的五种形式: 1.words of affirmation 2.quality time 3.receiving gifts 4.acts of service 5.physical touch
爱真的很难经营
旁听本科生心理健康课时老师随堂推荐的书,语言简单通俗易懂,没有花很久去查单词哈哈哈!这个五种语言的说法很有道理,把真爱用逻辑摆清,又没有失去感性之美。我爸的love language是赞美,我妈的love language是第一service和第二gifts。我觉得我的应该也是affirmation吧!!还在跑步的时候顺便听了原作者的有声书版本,居然是德州口音哈哈哈!有趣!祝我马到成功,早日和喜欢的大哥谈上恋爱!
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