Over the Top - Jonathan Van Ness

Over the Top

Jonathan Van Ness

出版社

HarperCollins

出版时间

2019-09-24

ISBN

9780062906373

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍
Who gave Jonathan Van Ness permission to be the radiant human he is today? No one, honey. The truth is, it hasn't always been gorgeous for this beacon of positivity and joy. Before he stole our hearts as the grooming and self-care expert on Netflix's hit show Queer Eye, Jonathan was growing up in a small Midwestern town that didn't understand why he was so…over the top. From choreographed carpet figure skating routines to the unavoidable fact that he was Just. So. Gay., Jonathan was an easy target and endured years of judgement, ridicule and trauma—yet none of it crushed his uniquely effervescent spirit. Over the Top uncovers the pain and passion it took to end up becoming the model of self-love and acceptance that Jonathan is today. In this revelatory, raw, and rambunctious memoir, Jonathan shares never-before-told secrets and reveals sides of himself that the public has never seen. JVN fans may think they know the man behind the stiletto heels, the crop tops, and the iconic sayings, but there's much more to him than meets the Queer Eye. You'll laugh, you'll cry, and you'll come away knowing that no matter how broken or lost you may be, you're a Kelly Clarkson song, you're strong, and you've got this.
用户评论
Very honest / just glad that everything turned out great for him
揭开自己的伤疤给大家看,为的是鼓励更多的人,要爱自己爱自己爱自己。不仅仅是JVN,我从Fab5的大家身上得到太多了。(一些题外话:今天睡醒想到的第一句话是,I love myself;每天会看着自己表扬自己;小汤昨天说,心理咨询师三要素里有说过,你先得有完整的自我,才能去共情。)
Always remember to nurture the hurt child inside you
Be fiercely authentic and unapologetic :)
坦荡的揭露作践自己的愚蠢经历,真心希望能借此鼓励那些在同样问题上困惑的人,非常有勇气也很有力量的叙述,不能理解,但正因为不能理解才倍现珍贵。Jonathan原名居然叫Jack,实在太好笑了,不敢想象他叫Jack的画面。真心希望他能珍惜当下难得的收获,真的很难得,也真的很容易失去,希望他能清楚自己有多幸运。稍微换下如果是一位女性:大学作弊被开除,找父母要钱租房,然后卖身满足私欲,难得遇到心上人又不断的出轨,心上人为了自己辞职搬家居然还嫌对方的工作不匹配自己的家庭,然后继续不断的出轨,感染艾滋,换成普通的男女几乎都很难再自洽。原来在美国携带者在发生性行为前不告诉对方,会犯bioterrorist,重罪。
拉高一下评分!很喜欢这本书,从这里得到自爱的启发!
这本书写了很多关于人生经历中的低潮,努力和转折点。有爱他的家人让他展现自我,不断试错。故事描写生动形象娓娓道来,每一个场景都有很多的细节,代入感极强。另外推荐JVN的播客,通过他了解了很多知识盲区。
好的际遇可以疗愈人心。
many thanks, JVN
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