书籍介绍
这不是一本教你经营恋爱的书。它真正追问的是：为什么我们明明渴望亲密，却总把关系变成战场？作者从'驯服爱'这一核心出发，指出我们从小被灌输的'爱的标准'——什么值得被爱、什么该被抛弃——恰恰是痛苦的根源。书中反复出现的观点发人深省：原谅不是因为你配得上，而是因为你不再愿意用别人的错惩罚自己；身体本自完美，是我们自己种下了美丑好坏的枷锁。它不追求严密的逻辑论证，反而以近乎'洗脑'的重复，反复叩击同一个朴素信念——当你真正理解爱是什么，你便有能力去爱几乎任何人。适合那些在关系里反复受挫、愿意重新审视'爱'这一概念的人；若你期待一本结构清晰、干货密集的操作手册，或许会中途放弃。
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特别喜欢。醍醐灌顶。每个人都应该学习如何去爱，心里会更健康。幸福指数会更高。1let us trust ourselves completely to make the choices we must make.2let the power of our self-love be so strong that we no longer need to live our life according to other people's opinions. 3healthy human being is not afraid to express love.4your partner is dealing with her own garbage.
let the light shine upon us so you can see the truth. May we master the technique of forgiveness; to forgive the ones who have hurt us. God, dispensing your love to us so we know how to love. We see you're everywhere in every being. It is the life that you gave to us flowing out to glorify the world.
概念很好，但很啰嗦车轱辘话来回说
thank you, next.
Build my own magic kitchen
Lost me at the grape chapter
没有The four agreements 深入人心，不过倒是可以引发思考，没那么多赞同
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