Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982 - Cho Nam-Joo

Kim Jiyoung, Born 1982

Cho Nam-Joo

出版时间

2020-04-14

ISBN

9781631496707

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍
Kim Ji-young is the most common name for Korean women born in the 1980s. Kim Ji-young is representative of her generation: At home, she is an unfavoured sister to her princeling little brother. In primary school, she is a girl who has to line up behind the boys at lunchtime. In high school, she is a daughter whose father blames her for being harassed late at night. In university, she is a good student who doesn’t get put forward for internships by her professor. In the office, she is an exemplary employee who is overlooked for promotion by her manager. At home, she is a wife who has given up her career to take care of her husband and her baby. Kim Ji-young is depressed. Kim Ji-young has started acting out. Kim Ji-young is her own woman. Kim Ji-young is insane. Kim Ji-young is sent by her husband to a psychiatrist. This is his clinical assessment of the everywoman in contemporary Korea.
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是我,也是你
是你我的故事,是沉重的日常,是年龄歧视,性别歧视,性骚扰,家庭困境,职场歧视等等人生马拉松上的绊脚石。这是全球女性被裹挟的困境,不仅仅是东亚而已。
女性困境
书友会书目,感觉这本书的问题是选的情节还不够严峻,基本上Kim Jiyoung 遇到的社会性别方面的挫折量处于中等水平之下(这种程度的描述居然引起了韩国那边的抗议,可见当地的性别歧视比书里描写的严重),这种都要精神分裂或人格解体了那中国大多数女性岂不是分分钟自尽,我个人遇到过的骚扰和歧视都比这里写的多得多,认识的长得漂亮社交圈又广的妹子遇到的相关问题就更是多到崩溃……终章从男性精神治疗师角度介绍金智英来看病的过程,主要讽刺该医生看似同情金智英,但其实内化了社会性别歧视,最后甚至表明自己以后招人尽量不招女的,不少男同胞最厉害的地方就是明明偏见严重但完全意识不到自己有问题……
有别于韩剧给我的感觉
第33本有声书,和电影相比各有千秋,电影末尾还给人了一线希望,而小说最后一句压根就没想你活。妈妈对ji young说run wild! run wild! you hear me!?那里心情复杂啊…女主大学时期短暂地以为自己能够脱离母辈的泥沼结果…
其实据统计国内也只有百分之二十的五十岁以上的女性仍然有工作,大部分女性放弃工作的时间都是在二十五岁到三十五岁。可能东亚国家文化真的高度相似吧,她是一个女人,也是每一个女人。
sadness and anger deep down, do not even have a proper way to frame it out
断断续续总算读完了因为读起来很痛苦有时候也会感同身受的苦笑因为我们身为东亚女性同处一个性别泥沼
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