Dear Ijeawele, or A Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions

这不是一本教女性如何“独立强大”的成功学手册，而是一份写给朋友的、关于如何养大一个女孩的实践清单。阿迪契把镜头对准了孩子尚且柔软、尚未被“性别紧身衣”裹挟的年纪：玩具区里男孩动、女孩被动的分野，厨房与灶台被默认为女性天赋，父亲“帮忙”带孩子背后藏着的领域归属——这些日常细节，才是平权真正 battleground。书中对“伪女权主义”的尖锐批评尤为刺骨：它允许、它姑息、它把平等设下无数前提。真正打动读者的，是那种“你首先得是你自己，才能扮演好妻子”的笃定。它适合所有被“为家庭牺牲”话术绑架过的人，也适合愿意重新审视“正常”二字的父亲。它不提供宏大理论，只教你如何在具体处，把女儿当作一个完整的人来对待。

Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie grew up in Nigeria. Her work has been translated into over thirty languages and has appeared in various publications, including The New Yorker, Granta, The O. Henry Prize Stories, the Financial Times, and Zoetrope. She is the author of the novels Purple Hibiscus, which won the Commonwealth Writers’ Prize and the Hurston/Wright Legacy Award; Half of a Yellow Sun, which won the Orange Prize and was a National Book Critics Circle Award Finalist and a New York Times Notable Book; and Americanah, which won the National Book Critics Circle Award and was named one of The New York Times Top Ten Best Books of 2013. Ms. Adichie is also the author of the story collection The Thing Around Your Neck. Ms. Adichie has been invited to speak around the world. Her 2009 TED Talk, The Danger of A Single Story, is now one of the most-viewed TED Talks of all time. Her 2012 talk We Should All Be Feminists has a started a worldwide conversation about feminism, and was published as a book in 2014. Her most recent book, Dear Ijeawele, or a Feminist Manifesto in Fifteen Suggestions, was published in March 2017. A recipient of a MacArthur Foundation Fellowship, Ms. Adichie divides her time between the United States and Nigeria.