Ejaculate Responsibly

这不是一本温和的性别平等读物，而是一份带着火药味的论战小册子。作者Gabrielle Blair把被 abortion 争议淹没的焦点强行扭向男性：避孕市场九成产品面向女性，男性生育力却是女性的五十倍，为何防止意外怀孕的责任几乎全落在女性肩上？全书以28条简短论证层层推进，语言通俗、犀利甚至带点幽默。它最打动人的地方在于视角的彻底翻转——真正的责任缺失不在女性身体，而在男性的回避。不过也有读者指出，部分生理数据偏于极端，说教色彩有时盖过严谨说理。正因如此，它更适合愿意被冒犯、被点醒的男性读者，以及想看清这场争论真正症结所在的人。

Gabrielle Stanley Blair is the author of Ejaculate Responsibly: A Whole New Way To Think About Abortion. She is also the founder of DesignMom.com. Started in 2006, it has been named a Parenting Website of the Year by Time Magazine, praised as a top parenting blog by The Wall Street Journal, Parents, and Better Homes & Gardens, and won the Iris Award for Blog of the Year. Her first book, Design Mom: How to Live with Kids, a New York Times Bestseller, was published in 2015 by Artisan. Gabrielle is also a founder of Alt Summit, the blockbuster annual conference for online content creators and creative entrepreneurs, currently in its 13th year. As a thought leader for over 15 years, Gabrielle has written and moderated hundreds of discussions on difficult topics, and interviewed some of the most influential people in the world. Her writing is quoted and shared across the globe daily. Gabrielle and her husband, Ben Blair, have six children — Ralph, Maude, Olive, Oscar, Betty, and Flora June. After six years in Oakland, they moved to a small town in Normandy, France where they are renovating a house from the 1600s. Follow her on Instagram and Twitter @designmom.