The Ballad of Sexual Dependency

Nan Goldin

出版社

Aperture

出版时间

2001-12-06

ISBN

9780893813390

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍
这并非一部关于情欲的画册,而是一份关于「依赖」的证据。Nan Goldin 用镜头捕捉的是人在亲密关系里的全部真相:性只是入口,真正被记录的是信任、脆弱与失控交织的纠缠。读者反复被打动的,正是那种矛盾的诚实——人既渴望独立,又贪恋彼此啃噬时的强度;关系越是毁灭性,人越是紧紧相黏,仿佛一种无法戒除的瘾。它打动人的地方,恰是它毫不粉饰的残酷:照片能证明你曾经拥有,却同时诉说着失去。它适合那些愿意直面亲密关系里不堪与真实的人,而非寻求审美距离的旁观者。对于摄影史而言,它的独特在于把「私摄影」从私人宣泄,提升为一种关于人类如何彼此连接的普遍叙事——在闪光灯亮起的一瞬,动物性与人性同时显形。
AI导读
核心看点
  • 记录八十年代纽约边缘群体的真实生活
  • 探讨亲密关系中的独立与依赖张力
  • 以私密视角呈现生活的密度与感官
读者共识
  • 照片充满生命力,引发强烈情感共鸣
  • 被视为私摄影领域的里程碑式作品
  • 真实记录记忆,无法被轻易改写
精彩摘录
  • "Real memory, which these pictures trigger, is an invocation of the color, smell, sound, and physical presence, the density and flavor of life."
  • "I often fear that men and women are irrevocably strangers to each other, irreconcilably unsuited, almost as if they were from different planets. But there is an intense need for coupling in spite of it all. Even if relationships are destructive, people cling together. It’s a biochemical reaction, it"
  • "Ballad reveals Goldin’s personal odyssey, as well as a more universal understanding of the different languages men and women speak, and the struggle between autonomy and dependence. ...... Nan Goldin’s story of urban life on the fringe was the swan song of an era that reached its peak in the early e"
  • "Sex itself is only one aspect of sexual dependency. Pleasure becomes the motivation, but the real satisfaction is romantic. Bed becomes a forum in which struggles in a relationship are defused or intensified. Sex isn't about performance: it's about a certain kind of communication founded on trust an"
用户评论
南·戈爾丁
1.是生活本身支撑了这些照片,你没法随便走进谁的家里,聊两句,就拍出这些。2.你一不吸毒二不打老婆,你的生活平淡如水你对它毫无疑问,和其他人没什么两样,你也拍私摄影当艺术家,你是拍给外星人看的么?3.历史可以被改写,记忆却不能。
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印刷还不错
【有爱按其本质就是一种眼中有别人,而忘记自己的状态】
#Brookline booksmith
speechless
原来海里那张照片是她拍的
南戈尔丁现在是我最喜欢的摄影师之一了
看的网图,等我有钱了一定买纸本!🥺“性依存叙事曲”——这是我所听过的最美的摄影集名。
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