书籍 Love Is a Choice的封面

Love Is a Choice

Hemfelt, Robert/ Minirth, Frank/ Meier, Paul

出版社

Thomas Nelson

出版时间

2003-02-04

ISBN

9780785263753

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍
These bestselling doctors walk you through their ten proven stages to recovery from codependency that results from external circustances. Humans are susceptible to codependency because of our sinful tendency to use defense mechanisms to fool ourselves. In codependent relationships, deceitful games are played, and important Christian principles are often taken out of context and abused. God wants us to have healthy relationships with a balance between being dependent and independent. The doctors describe how the most effective means of overcoming codependent relationships is to establish or deepen a relationship with Christ Himself. They describe the causes of codependency, pointing out the factors that perpetuate it, and lead readers through their ten stages of recovery.
用户评论
Re-read. I just didn't realize how excruciating and dangerous this could be... This is damn hard.
重症患者 亟待醫治
这里有趣的一点就是关于“沉迷”的解释,让我觉得很fresh,当然很多问题是我看书之前就意识到了,再看书的时候会觉得“咦我悟性很高”嘛。不过尽信书不如无书,看这种书之前我需要再多看看批判性思维⋯⋯
最难是面对自己, 总是否定中掩饰逃避;父母对孩子的成长影响真的很大,还好我的不是失落的童年,呵呵。。。爱,必须从家庭开始。(看的是中文版,有轻工业和团结版,轻工的好点,不过我是一起对照看,什么时候才能够看上英文原版呢?)
很多关于神的描述我不赞同,但很多方法和对自我的剖析很有用
有震撼感
关于“拖累症”的介绍。主要的核心是“儿时的储爱槽没有被父母填满,长大后会出现各种各样的问题”。
#大家都有病系列# 刚开始觉得自己病的不轻……看到后面反而觉得自己是幸运的。
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