书籍 The Drama of the Gifted Child的封面

The Drama of the Gifted Child

Alice Miller

出版社

Basic Books

出版时间

1997-01-01

ISBN

9780465016907

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍
As charming performers who skillfully reflect their parents expectations, far too many children grow into adults driven to greater and greater achievements by an underlying sense of worthlessness. Never allowed to express their true feelings, and having lost touch with their true selves, they act out their repressed feelings with episodes of depression and compulsive behavior. They in turn inflict the same legacy of repression on their own children. This poignant and thought-provoking book shows how narcissistic parents form and deform the lives of their children. The Drama of the Gifted Child is the first step toward helping readers reclaim their lives by discovering their own needs and their own truth.
用户评论
看完还是很想和我妈吵架
Alison Bechdel 提到过于是来读……最开始觉得有些问题自己已处理过之后再读到就没那么震撼,但读到后来还是有很多强烈的共鸣
没怎么看懂。
A messed-up adult can only bring up a messed-up child, who ends up being a messed-up adult.
Take-away message: if you are not able to clean up your own shit and still have lots of love to give, then don't have children, because you sure as hell are going to ruin them.
文笔很好2016-09-18 14:50:41
写完memoir 再看这本书 感觉像在照镜子一样。推荐给所有人。如Alice在书的末尾所言:“Individuals who do not want to know their own truth collude in denial with society as a whole, looking for a common “enemy” on whom to act out their repressed rage.” 不能同意更多!
朋友的老公的姐姐的老公的妈妈推荐的书,有点过于真实了哈哈哈哈哈哈
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