书籍 Siblings Without Rivalry的封面

Siblings Without Rivalry

Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish, [美国] 伊莱恩·玛兹丽施

出版时间

2012-06-08

ISBN

9780393063387

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍
Already best-selling authors with How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk, Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish turned their minds to the battle of the siblings. Parents themselves, they were determined to figure out how to help their children get along. The result was Siblings Without Rivalry. This wise, groundbreaking book gives parents the practical tools they need to cope with conflict, encourage cooperation, reduce competition, and make it possible for children to experience the joys of their special relationship. With humor and understanding much gained from raising their own children Faber and Mazlish explain how and when to intervene in fights, provide suggestions on how to help children channel their hostility into creative outlets, and demonstrate how to treat children unequally and still be fair. Updated to incorporate fresh thoughts after years of conducting workshops for parents and professionals, this edition also includes a new afterword.
用户评论
(2018.25) 感觉作为独生子女,之前一直没意识到sibling rivalry原来这么普遍233 和How to talk to kids里cover的沟通方式是一致的,但更加focus在sibling rivalry上;仍然是非常好读,对therapist和家长都很有用。但感觉实际做parenting skill coaching的时候需要思考一下怎么把这两本书和Tuning into kids一起结合起来。
Very useful and practical. Still need to re-read and practice a lot.
特别好。Informative and practical. 印象特别深刻的两点:1、Insisting upon good feelings between the children led to bad feelings. 对于大孩子来说,弟弟妹妹的到来是整个世界都被颠覆了的困难体验。2、To be loved equally is be loved less. To be loved uniquely—for one’s own special self—is to be loved as much as we need to be loved. 在对待多个孩子的时候,看见并欣赏每个孩子的uniqueness是最重要的,特别是不能比较孩子们,不管是赞许的还是贬低的。值得时常重读的一本书
对多子女家庭来说是本很好的工具书。