Tuesdays with Morrie
出版时间
1999-07-23
ISBN
9780385496490
评分
★★★★★
书籍介绍
这书最引争议处，恰在它被称作“心灵鸡汤”：不少读者嫌它每章都浮在水面、不够深入，甚至“忍着恶心读完”；可更多人却在病床边被一句话钉住——“死亡结束的是生命，而非关系”。作者米奇重访患绝症的老教授墨瑞，十四堂每周二的课，讲的不是如何优雅赴死，而是如何别在忙碌中活得毫无价值：区分“想要”与“需要”，别用跑车与房子替代拥抱，允许别人超车时也微笑放行。它真正戳中的，是都市人那种“半睡状态”的焦虑——追逐着与自己毫无关系的东西。它不适合寻求鸡血的人，却适合曾在深夜怀疑自己忙错了方向的读者。
AI导读
核心看点
- 师生重逢，探讨生死与爱的真谛
- 反思物质追求，重建内心价值
- 直面衰老死亡，获得心灵治愈
读者共识
- 温暖治愈，适合睡前静心阅读
- 文字浅显，适合英语入门练习
- 经历越多，越能读懂书中深意
精彩摘录
- "while I spent so many hours on things that meant absolutely nothing to me personally: movie stars, supermodels, the latest noise out of Princess Di or Madonna or John F. Kennedy, Jr. In a strange way, I envied the quality of Morrie’s time even as I lamented its diminishing supply. So many people wal"
- "1.来日无多和毫无价值不是同义词。 2.人生最重要的是如何施爱于人，并去接受爱。爱是唯一的理性行为。 3.当你觉得它可怕时，它才可怕。 4.我知道年轻也会是一种苦恼，所以别向我炫耀年轻的魅力。那些来找我的孩子都有他们的烦恼：矛盾、迷茫、不成熟、活着感到累，有的甚至想自杀...而且，年轻人还不够明智。他们对生活的理解很有限。衰老并不就是衰败，它是成熟。接近死亡并不一定是坏事，当你意识到这个事实后，它也有十分积极的一面，你会因此而活得更好。 5.无论我生活在哪里，我都会遇到一些对新的东西充满了占有欲的人，想拥有新的汽车，想拥有新的财产，想拥有新的玩具。然后沾沾自喜地向你炫耀：“猜我得到了什么？猜我"
- "For all that was happening to him,his voice was strong and inviting,and his mind was vibrating with a million thoughts.He was intent on proving that the word "dying" was not synonymous with "useless". When a collegue at Brandeis died suddenly of a heart attack,Morrie went to his funeral.He came home"
- ""All this emphasis on youth--I don't buy it,"he said."Listen,I know what a misery being young can be,so don't tell me it's so great.All these kids who came to me with their struggles,their stife,their feelings of inadequacy,their sense that life was miserable,so bad they wanted to kill themselves. ""
- ""It is impossible for the old not to envy the young.But the issue is to accept who you are and revel in that.This is your time to be in your thirties.I had my time to be in my thirties,and now is my time to be seventy-eight. "You have to find what's good and true and beautiful in your life as it is "
- ""Part of the problem,is that everyone is in such a hurry,"Morrie said."People haven't found meaning in their lives,so they're running all the time looking for it.They think the next car,the next house,the next job.Then they find those things are empty,too,and they keep running." Once you start runni"
- "别庸人自扰，一切都是空。 接受所有的感情.不让自己去感受、经历,你就永远超脱不了.因为你始终心存恐惧,你害怕痛苦,害怕悲伤,害怕爱必须承受的感情伤害.可你一旦投入进去,沉浸在感情的汪洋里,你就能充分的体验它,知道什么是痛苦,什么是悲伤,只有那时你才能说,好吧,我已经经历了、认识了这份感情,现在我需要超脱它. 不拒绝恐惧的进入,把它当作一件常穿的衬衫穿上,那么你就能对自己说：好吧,这仅仅是恐惧,我不必受它的支配,我能直面它。对孤独也一样,体会它的感受,让泪水流淌下来,细细的品味,但最后要能说：好吧,这是我孤独的一刻,我不怕感到孤独,现在我要把它弃之一旁,因为世界上还有其他的感情让我去体验。"
- "“无论我生活在哪里，我都会遇到一些对新的东西充满了占有欲的人，想拥有新的汽车，想拥有新的财产，想拥有新的玩具。然后沾沾自喜地向你炫耀：‘猜我得到了什么？猜我得到了什么？’” “你知道我对此是怎么解释的？这些人都渴望得到爱，但又得不到，于是就接受了这些替代品。他们乐于接受物质的东西，期望能得到类似于拥抱的感情回报，但这是行不通的。你无法用物质的东西去替代爱、善良、温柔或朋友间的亲情。” 他用一句诗来结束了这个话题：“相爱或者死亡。”他十分虔诚的相信这句箴言。"
用户评论
well,忍着恶心把这本心灵鸡巴汤读完了！
睡前想起来会读一点的鸡汤，只能说这本鸡汤不适合我，我需要的是鸡血而非鸡汤~
想度英语原著，又不想看幼稚童话的都看看这本吧，反正我看完信心大增。 You are not a wave, you're part of the ocean. Death ends a life, not a relationship.
经历过才能读懂
很多年前读的。今天又有了一点年纪时会不会感觉不一样？
a superficial look can still go deep not quite..
总觉得可以写的更深入一些吧
目前看的最感动的书，create your own culture.
第一次看书看到泪流满面🥲
虽然听起来像是本鸡汤文，但是你却能够从中感受到一个生命的缓缓离去。只能是用来习得一些临别之际的心态，而不能在年轻鲜活的当下践行。（油盐不进？）当然要过自己的人生，love or die?
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