书籍介绍
这不是一本旅行指南，也不是励志手册，而是一位美国中年女性在婚姻崩塌后，用整整一年时间把自己扔进三种异质文化里重新拼凑自己的实录。它真正戳中读者的，是那种近乎袒露的自我怀疑：主人公做作、纠结、阴暗，却恰恰让许多读者在别处看不到与自己相当的狼狈。书里反复出现的核心洞见——灵魂伴侣不是完美契合，而是一面照出你何处停滞的镜子——并非鸡汤式的安慰，而是带着痛感的自我拆解。它适合那些正经历某种丧失、需要在他人裂缝中确认自己并不孤单的人；也适合对"灵修旅行"叙事保持警惕、想看清其矫情之处的人。坦白说，它的文字确实啰嗦，但正是这份不干脆，构成了它最真实的价值。
作者简介
Elizabeth Gilbert is the author of a story collection, Pilgrims (a finalist for the PEN/Hemingway Award), a novel, Stern Men, and, most recently, The Last American Man, a finalist for the National Book Award in Nonfiction and the National Book Critics Circle Award. As a journalist, she wrote for GQ for five years and was nominated three times for the National Magazine Award.
AI导读
核心看点
- 作者辞职离婚，环游世界寻找自我。
- 在意大利享乐，在印度灵修，在巴厘岛寻爱。
- 重新定义灵魂伴侣，学会与不完美的自己和解。
读者共识
- 文字温暖治愈，适合在低谷期阅读以获力量。
- 部分读者认为内容琐碎，存在过度自我剖析之嫌。
- 中文译名争议大，原名《美食，祈祷，恋爱》更佳。
精彩摘录
- ""He probably was. Your problem is you don't understand what that word means. People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that's what everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that's holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so"
- "Do not apologize for crying. Without this emotion, we are only robots."
- "We're miserable because we think that we are mere individuals, alone with our fears and flaws and resentments and mortality. We wrongly believe that our limited little egos constitute our whole entire nature. We have failed to recognize our deeper divine character."
- "Someday you're gonna look back on this moment of your life as such a sweet time of grieving.. You 'll see that you were in mourning and your hear was broken, but your life was changing and you were in the best possible place in the world for it-- in a beautiful place of worship, surrounded by grace."
- "“But I love him." "So love him." "But I miss him." "So miss him. Send him some love and light every time you think about him, and then drop it. You're just afraid to let go of the last bits of David because then you'll really be alone, and Liz Gilbert is scared to death of what will happen if she's "
- "it is better to live your own destiny imperfectly than to live an imitation of somebody else's life with perfection"
- "妇女应努力变得像自己想嫁的男人。我近来领悟到，我不仅必须变成自己的丈夫，也必须变成自己的父亲。"
- "“你是我碰到过最幸运的人。你活得很久,有许多朋友,许多经验。你看整个世界。你的生命只有一个问题。你过分焦虑,总是太情绪化,太紧张。假如我要你相信,生活中永远没必要去担忧任何事情,你信不信?”"
用户评论
20121004-20130125.这书是受hy的影响买的，断断续续读完了。
与自己和解…书其实一般，但看的时间很重要，几乎每天都能回答我当天的情感问题，简直是心理医生…
饭祷爱
属于随手翻来一页都可以读下去的书 作者写的很细腻用心 超出电影
作者还是太年轻了
上学时候看的电影很喜欢，又买了原著来收藏。时隔多年心血来潮拿起来看，断断续续一个半月，碎碎念的Liz却很符合我的很多人生理念。也想有间隔年啊。和大了二十多岁的灵魂伴侣也很让人欣慰了。
ANTEVASIN, who lives at the border, a in-beteener, a scholar who’s not afraid to always toward the UNKNOWN
19岁读的第一本旅行小说，现在想挺没意思的。但19岁的时候居然会把书里的每一句奉为真理呢。
Go find the balance between hobby, job, career and vocation, then embrace it.
受限于教育和文化，很难理解祈祷的部分。但是意大利的废墟让我有去一次的冲动。
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