Not My Father's Son: A Memoir

Alan Cumming

出版时间

2014-10-07

ISBN

9780062225061

评分

★★★★★
书籍介绍

Dark, painful memories can be like a cage. Or, in the case of Alan Cumming, they can be packed away in a box, stuck in the attic to be forgotten. Until one day the box explodes and all the memories flood back in horrible detail. Alan Cumming grew up in the grip of a man who held his family hostage, someone who meted out violence with a frightening ease, who waged a silent war with himself that sometimes spilled over onto everyone around him. That man was Alex Cumming, Alan's father.

When television producers approached Alan to appear on a popular celebrity genealogy show in 2010, he enthusiastically agreed. He hoped to solve a mystery that had long cast a shadow over his family. His maternal grandfather, Tommy Darling, had disappeared into the Far East after WWII. Alan's mother knew very little about him—he had been a courier, carrying information between battalions on his motorbike. The last time she saw her father, Alan's mother was eight years old. When she was thirteen, the family was informed that he had died by his own hand, an accidental shooting.

But this was not the only mystery laid before Alan's feet. His father, whom Alan had not seen or spoken to for more than a decade, reconnected just before filming for Who Do You Think You Are? began. He had a secret he had to share, one that would shock his son to his very core and set into motion a journey that would change Alan's life forever.

With ribald humor, wit, and incredible insight, Alan seamlessly moves back and forth in time, integrating stories from his childhood in Scotland and his experiences today as the celebrated actor of film, television, and stage. At times suspenseful, at times deeply moving, but always incredibly brave and honest, Not My Father's Son is a powerful story of embracing the best aspects of the past and triumphantly pushing the darkness aside.

Alan Cumming, OBE, is a Scottish-American stage, television and film actor. His roles have included Kurt Wagner/Nightcrawler in X2: X-Men United, and Fegan Floop in the Spy Kids trilogy. He has also appeared in independent films like The Anniversary Party, which he wrote, directed and starred; and Ali Selim's Sweet Land for which he won an Independent Spirit award as producer.

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作者简介
Alan Cumming, OBE, is a Scottish-American stage, television and film actor. His roles have included Kurt Wagner/Nightcrawler in X2: X-Men United, and Fegan Floop in the Spy Kids trilogy. He has also appeared in independent films like The Anniversary Party, which he wrote, directed and starred; and Ali Selim's Sweet Land for which he won an Independent Spirit award as producer. His London stage appearances include Hamlet, Madman in Dario Fo's Accidental Death of an Anarchist for which he received an an Olivier award, the lead in Martin Sherman's Bent and as Dionysus in The National Theatre of Scotland's The Bacchae. On Broadway he has appeared as Mac the Knife in The Threepenny Opera and the Emcee in Cabaret for which he won the Tony in 1998. Cumming has also written a novel, Tommy's Tale, contributed to many publications, and performs with his band I Bought A Blue Car Today on a regular basis.
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Painful and poweful
没想到,还没看几页时,心都要碎了。之后就渐渐见识到这个男人的内心到底有多强大。写就这本书的过程大概也能作为他的一个情感梳理、宣泄的过程。
Libby上借的有声书,alan自己读的,不是非常重的苏格兰口音。没想到他有个这么abusive的父亲,但他真的太优秀、强大了,没有被击垮也没有复制他父亲的暴力。而且alan叔对女性的态度让我对他很加分,查了下他2016年还endorsed了bernie sanders,为me too发声,真的太加分了。接下来准备再读他新的回忆录。
有些失望,Alan文汇蛮好,受过好教育,用词也讲究,感情丰富,但内容重复,说太多描太少,节奏几乎不加控制,暂是上不去大雅堂的。逢遇悲惨事,总手抚胸口后埋脸痛哭或嚎叫,倒不是不好,但写成书说故事,就过于简单和单薄了。我还是喜欢他演员的身份,有老来骚的潜质。
刚刚看啃完的原版 卡明叔的早期经历看着真的太心酸
很真挚,但是有点重复。
在此之前,我对Alan的所有了解,也不过是看了他的Cabaret,以及他跟Kristin一起主持的Tony。我没想到在某种程度上,我们经历过如此相似的事。他写父亲的暴力,易怒,无常,写他每一次紧张或是突然放松的呼吸,我如此感同身受。我也因此好爱他的彻底坦白,他管不住自己向每一个人叙述在他生命中发生的每一件事,好巧我也是这样。很难得在讲述这么沉重的故事时,他还总在尽力找回幽默的调子,连acknowledgments都写得有趣。也总在以己度人,会想到女性是怎样被剥夺力量继而权利,会忧心老兵的PTSD并为了改变现状尽力而为。而且他那么善良而宽容,原谅自己的父亲是我无论如何也做不到的事。还不懦弱,会一次次和父亲对峙,处理遗嘱也很解气【被他安利了The Eurovision song contest
Life can be so fucking bleak. Abso-fucking-lutely.
看的时候翻了很多字典 很多人应该都有过那种沉重的经历 #当我们痛恨家庭的时候
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