书籍介绍
这本书最引争议之处，恰是它最真实的价值：它把「活在当下」这句人人都懂的大道理，摊开讲给你听——而多数读者读完后的第一反应是「道理都懂，却难做到」。它不提供速效药，而是抛出一组可反复咀嚼的工具：区分「处理式思维」与「自由流动式思维」，教你在人际冲突、职场难题中先学会倾听、悬置评判。适合那些已被「仓鼠跑轮」式节奏掏空、却又不愿放弃事业与生活的人。它更像一本随身可翻的清醒手册，篇幅短、句子顺，缺点也明显：理念单薄、行文啰嗦。真正读进去的人会说——偶尔那一瞬的平静，就值了。
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核心看点
- 倡导放慢节奏，专注当下
- 通过改变态度缓解现代焦虑
- 提升创造力与身心健康水平
读者共识
- 语言流畅，适合英语阅读练习
- 道理通俗但践行难度较大
- 部分读者认为内容略显啰嗦
精彩摘录
- "Here are four suggestions for dealing with difficult people in the workplace: 1. See beyond their behavior to their human potential; then you will more likely elicit their healthy psychological functioning. 2. Give them the benefit of the doubt; they may be in a low mood or going through a difficult"
- "SIX REASONS WHY IT IS CRITICAL TO SLOW DOWN TO THE SPEED OF LIFE • Reduction of stress • Improved physical health • More present, intimate, and loving relationships • Heightened sensory awareness and enjoyment of the natural beauty around us • Greater peace of mind and serenity • Dramatically improv"
- "The processing mode of thought performs the following functions: • It stores information (memory). • It analyzes this data (sorts it, compares it to existing information, and organizes it into beliefs, concepts, and ideas). • It plans our lives (creates a simulation of the future based on past memor"
- "Free-flowing thinking has these advantages: • It is stress free. • It is nonfatiguing. • It is ideally suited for dealing with the unknown, where creative or evolutionary thought is needed. • It allows us to be at peak performance and enjoyment simultaneously. • It is natural."
- "FOUR KEYS TO GETTING BACK TO THE MOMENT 1. Listening 2. Seeing the wisdom in not knowing 3. Having faith in the free-flowing mode 4. Putting your problems on the back burner"
- "The challenge is the thing. I might not get the answer right away. I might have to walk away, have a cup of coffee, but whenI come back, the idea comes to me. EMIL VOLLMER, INVENTOR AND PLANT ENGINEER"
- "SPEEDING UP YOUR LIFE: THE PITFALLS People speed up their lives with their own thinking in three main ways. It may be helpful to briefly list and describe these pitfalls so that you can avoid them as much as possible. They are: 1. Analyzing your problems and your life 2. Judging yourself every time "
- "We have covered seven essential steps to reducing the stress in your life. Let’s briefly review them here: 1. Knowing that inner peace is possible. Living at the speed of life is always a possibility. Even when we feel stressed or as if our lives are out of control in any given moment, we can know t"
用户评论
语言很顺溜，但人生哲理很有限，关键就是喜欢观察生活的人，生活不会亏待ta的！。
把一篇好文章的内容扩展成一本书，估计就是这个效果吧
非常罗嗦,说来说去其实就是focus on Present，还不如之前在心理学课堂上学过的清晰易懂。I climb because when I’m climbing it’s almost impossible not to be present. I must be right where I am and nowhere else. This brings me great joy and allows me to bring this type of attention to some of the rest of my life.
过了一遍而已，612和308
哪怕是那一瞬的peace
书如其名，本书就是一本适合慢慢读的书，知识点就一个如书名，不会一次忍不住读完，偶尔闲来拿起来读一读，阅读感受还是不错的
没耐心看这种故事连篇的书
书还好，理念是通过放缓生活节奏来增加思维的清晰度。但是书里最重要的概念free flowing mode ，作者并没有真的解释清，或者告诉我们如何实现这种状态。我的理解就是人有两种思考方式，一种是逻辑思维，另一种是不通过思考用直决做判断。用直觉做判断只能在精神非常放松的状态下才能达到，即必须要给自己足够的时间，而不是强迫自己没准备好就做决策。这就是slow down to the speed of life.
有时候有些书对现在的生活状态就是一剂良药，比如这本。有些内心的想法一旦改变了，那随之变化的就是一连串的事情。
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